Biography
Who is Paul Wesley?
Early life and heritage
Born Paweł Tomasz Wasilewski on July 23, 1982, in New Brunswick, New Jersey, the actor is of Polish descent. His parents are Agnieszka and Tomasz Wasilewski. He has one older sister, Monika Emara, and two younger siblings named Leah and Julia. During his childhood, he traveled to Poland for four months annually until he turned 16, which helped him become fluent in the Polish language.
Paul attended Christian Brothers Academy in Lincroft, New Jersey, and later enrolled at Marlboro High School. He eventually transferred to Lakewood Prep School in Howell, New Jersey, to better balance his education with his early acting career. He began his theater training in New York City while still in high school. He briefly attended Rutgers University but left after one semester to pursue acting opportunities full time.
Television and film career
Paul Wesley began his professional acting career with roles in various television shows, including Wolf Lake, Guiding Light, and Smallville. In 2007, he starred in the miniseries Fallen. He gained significant fame in 2009 when he was cast as Stefan Salvatore in the teen drama The Vampire Diaries, a role he played until 2017. His performance on the show earned him multiple honors, including Teen Choice Awards and Young Hollywood Awards.
Beyond his acting work, Paul has directed several episodes for series such as Shadowhunters and Roswell, New Mexico. In 2022, he joined the cast of the Paramount+ series Star Trek: Strange New Worlds, portraying the famous character James T. Kirk. This role led to a Saturn Award for Best Guest Star in a Television Series in 2024. He has also produced various projects through his company, Citizen Media.
Personal life and advocacy
Paul Wesley married Torrey DeVitto in April 2011, and the couple finalized their divorce in December 2013. He later married Ines de Ramon in February 2019, though they separated in 2022 and finalized their divorce in February 2024. He married model Natalie Kuckenburg in July 2026. He previously maintained a four-year relationship with actress Phoebe Tonkin.
Outside of his professional work, Paul is an ethical vegan who advocates for animal rights. He received the Humane Generation Award in 2014 for his contributions to farm animal welfare. He has also engaged in charitable fundraising, including campaigns with the Humane Society and a business partnership with Ian Somerhalder to launch Brother's Bond Bourbon.
Birthday and age
Paul Wesley was born on July 23, 1982, which makes Paul 44 years old today. That birthday falls under the Leo sign. Paul shares the date with 34 other famous people.
Explore more









